Weaning is most often referred as a transition period for the baby to stop breastfeeding and to get all his nutritional requirements in other sources other than the breast. The idea of weaning may mean a lot of questions and problems faced not only by a mother but also of the father and the child. For this reason, it is necessary for the mothers to prepare the weaning period. It will take a lot of time and patience to help the child adjust in the transition period. However, not everyone will have difficulty; some others will find weaning a natural process. Just like any other developments or milestones for both the baby and the parents, the experience will all be different for everybody.
Weaning is not exactly time-bounded but usually, experts recommend that it should start after about one to two years after you have breastfed your child. No matter what decision you make, do not be pressured by what others will tell you. As a mother, you are given that primal instinct to know the right time. Also, be forewarned that weaning should not be seen as a power struggle between you and your baby. Analyze the different factors that might come into play when you plan on weaning. There are times that it should be postponed for a little while or it should be temporarily halted because of some reasons. You need to be wary that adjusting to a sick baby, to your new role as a mother or to a major life event like a divorce or a new job means that weaning may be more difficult but then again, sooner or later, you’ll have to decide and that be your own personal decision.
To wean your child, do it in a manner that won’t be traumatic. Take it in strides and do not rush about getting the result right away. You can try a lot of methods that will surely help you in ensuring that your child will not suffer greatly during the time of weaning. Here are some tried-and-tested methods:
- Cut your breastfeeding time gradually. Instead of spending around ten minutes in one breast, you may want to cut it by a minute every single day. You may also opt to let your child nurse for around eight minutes; the remaining minutes would be compensated by other feedings like a bottle or cup of milk. Reduce nursing time every single day and compensate it just the same.
- Try to distract feedings. One good way to distract feeding is to reason out that you would have to help the sibling. This may apply to the older children but for the younger ones, you might have to postpone breastfeeding at specific times of the day.
- Skip a feeding and offer something else. For babies, try expressing milk from your breast and instead of breastfeeding, give the milk using a bottle. If this won’t apply, you may use formula milk. For the older children, you may have to offer healthier snacks like applesauce and other breast milk alternatives.
Finally, bear in mind that weaning doesn’t mean that you are now going to lose that magical moment you share with your child. The intimacy will always be there as long you have established this while breastfeeding in the earlier stages. Weaning is about moving on and letting your child experience the joy and difficulties of nurturing from other sources and of exploring the world he is yet to conquer.

