When there’s a new baby in the house, every moment is a Kodak moment. Your baby’s first word and first step are truly worth documenting, but your little one actually has a lot of mini-milestones that are just worth looking forward to and making memorable.
Besides developing his language skills and learning how to use his motor skills, your baby is actually spending a lot of time discovering what each of his or her little body parts can do – wiggling fingers and toes, wrinkling nose, blinking, squinting, and all other cute baby actions are worth celebrating, as they are signs that your baby’s mind and body are developing as they should.
When your baby smiles
You will notice a bright and cheery little face sometime between the sixth and eighth week after your baby’s birth. Grab your camera and shoot away – there’s nothing like a toothless baby grin to brighten up the entire household.
When you see a smile within the first weeks after birth, it is probably just a facial expression brought about by gas, or the need to try out those facial muscles. However, babies will need a few more weeks to ease into social smiling (where they really smile because they are happy and not because they’re trying out facial movement).
Eventually, babies realize that when they smile, their parents’ attention is all theirs. Your little one begins to associate feelings of happiness with smiling – this is a milestone that shows that he or she is beginning to see relationships of emotions and expressions.
The best way you can encourage a big smile from your baby is to smile yourself. Infants mimic facial expressions, so if they see your smile frequently, they will learn grin a lot more often.
When your baby blows raspberries
You are most likely to witness this when your baby is about three months or so. During a baby’s third or fourth month of life, he or she discovers his or her voice – you will hear a lot of growling, purring, squealing, and you will witness the little one blowing raspberries. This is a great sign that your baby is gaining control of his or her mouth, tongue and lips. If you’re waiting for your baby’s first word as a major milestone, blowing raspberries is a mini-milestone that says your baby is tweaking his or her mouth to prepare for learning how to say words.
When your baby learns to blow raspberries, encourage the behavior by smiling and blowing your own raspberries. You will want to make him or her keep doing this because the mouth exercise will do wonders on his or her abilities to form and utter sounds and words later on.
When your baby shakes a rattle
At four months, your baby’s hands will have learned to hold and grasp things, such as a rattle. A rattle is a classic baby toy because not only does a baby learn to grasp it, he or she also learns a little “cause and effect”. When your baby shakes the rattle, he or she hears sound. Eventually, your little one will figure out that shaking the rattle makes noise.
To make learning more interesting for your baby, pick rattles that have different colors, textures, sizes and shapes.